Wednesday, December 29, 2021

Dismal day at the doctor and the dietician

We had a rendezvous with Haya's neurologist and dietician this week. 

My husband Arnold attended in person and I was on video Whatsapp (Haya did not attend). Fortunately it was succinct but not too heavy on the positive news. 

Here are its conclusions:

  • Both agreed there will be no changes to the Ketogenic Diet or the drug regimen for the time being. We would ultimately like to reduce the meds but since Haya was hit with status epilepticus the last time we tried that, it's not a step the doctor wants to take again yet. 
  • Both were also satisfied with the halt in Haya's weight gain although she remains 2-3 kilos heavier than she was when we began the diet. But she was gaunt then.
  • The neurologist predicted, pretty definitively, that there will be no cognitive improvements down the road for Haya regardless of any changes we make in her treatment. Ever.
  • The dietician emphasized that Haya's seizure control would probably improve if I readjusted her meal times. The goal should be to provide her with a longer night-time fasting stretch. Ten to twelve hours would be optimal. I'm aiming for that but not nearly there. Got to get my act together. 
  • The neurologist. thought Haya's frequent right-leg twitching is probably not a seizure but rather some benign involuntary movement of which she is unaware due to her neurological state. I first noticed it several months ago but presumed it wasn't cause for concern; maybe even some normal habit she'd picked up. Arnold wasn't so sure so he raised it. I suppose "normal habit" isn't an option for Haya. 

This is the clip of that twitching which we showed the doctor.

And here is Haya in the hydrotherapy pool this week. We're keeping it up through rain and cold!



Monday, December 20, 2021

Look who's promoting institutionalization now

From the UN CRPD website
Last week I was quite optimistic when I learned of the scheduled cabinet debate regarding the proposed grant of tens of millions of shekels to Doron Almog's ADI Negev ["Ministerial scrutiny of Israel's largest institution for children with disabilities?"].   

I  progressed from that to elation when Haaretz, Israel's leading newspaper, published a piece (in Hebrew only at this stage) about the issue this past Friday [תוכנית להרחבת מוסד לאנשים עם מוגבלות מציתה מחלוקת: האם המקום פוגע בדייריו]. 

True, it was only guardedly critical of Almog and his institution for people with disabilities - but it was critical. And that spelled a sea change in the Israeli consensus. 

In its wake I toyed with this upbeat line for my tweet: "One Small Step - or One Giant Leap?" My more grounded husband assured me it was neither (see my Tweet).

And he was so right. 

Because today, the most powerful man in our government posted a tribute to ADI Negev and a veritable hagiography of Doron Almog. On his Facebook page! That's our prime minister to whom I'm referring. The man who is supposed to be tackling existential threats like Omicron, terrorism, Iran's nuclear activities. 

Yes, he actually found the time to promote the institutionalization of babies and children with disabilities far from their families in large, closed residences. 

And he did that with utter disregard for the UN Convention on the Rights of Persons with Disabilities. The treaty that Israel signed onto and then ratified in 2012

Today a more apt tweet would be "One Step Forward, Three Steps Back". 

Bizchut is urging everyone to elucidate the above for the prime minister, Naftali Bennett in a comment on his Facebook page. And yes, mine's already there.

Sunday, December 12, 2021

Ministerial scrutiny of Israel's largest institution for children with disabilities?

I have written often and over a long period about the chain of institutions here in Israel called ALEH

It originally consisted of four residential facilities in different cities housing a total of some 800 babies, children and adults. 

I have never had anything favorable to say about the operation, to put it mildly. I am not a fan of theirs and am opposed to the core values for which they stand.

ALEH, as a chain of institutions for children with special needs, has pretty much disappeared as a brand name. On this archived website, you can see how they used to call themselves "Israel’s Largest Network of Care for Children with Severe Multiple Disabilities" as if that were something to be proud of.

No longer. 

About two years ago, Doron Almog, who established ALEH's Negev branch, announced that it would thenceforth be partnering with the Jerusalem branch under the name ADI and under his leadership. The remaining two branches, one in Gedera and the second in Bnei Brak, would operate as part of a separate entity under the ALEH name and under the leadership of Rabbi Yehuda Marmorstein.

The entire transformation has been characterized by fog and confusion.

This post is triggered by something unusual: a discussion that was due to be held in Israel's Cabinet today (Sunday, December 12, 2021). It's not clear to me that the discussion happened or whether it was pushed off. We will probably soon know.

The institution formerly called ALEH Negev, now branded ADI, has enjoyed "etrog" status in the Israeli government as some of my previous posts indicated. 


The following letter which appeared today in a Whatsapp group to which I belong is being widely circulated among Israel's activists for the rights of people with disabilities. It is written in Hebrew but here is an unofficial English translation:

At a cabinet meeting scheduled for today, December 12, 2021, the following proposal will be discussed: That tens of millions of shekels be granted to ADI Negev, an institution for people with disabilities. The proposal's details are unknown to us but the very intention to allocate millions of shekels to this institution raises concerns that this is a plan which contravenes, in whole or in part, the International Convention on the Rights of Persons with Disabilities, which was ratified by the State of Israel in 2012.

One of the treaty's core tenets is the right to live within the community, the right to fully participate in society and and the right to inclusion in society. The Convention, and its official interpretation, oppose outright the existence of institutions and of residential frameworks with institutional characteristics. These include, among others, residences with a large number of people with disabilities in one place, segregation away from the general community, the inability of the individual to make decisions - even the most basic decisions - regarding his life and so on.

Therefore states that have ratified the treaty are required to prepare a plan that will eventually lead to the closure of all such institutional frameworks for people with disabilities, while developing community services for them.
 
Needless to say, international law prohibits the allocation of resources to further the operations of institutional frameworks.

It will be recalled that even the international committee appointed by the Ministry of Welfare a decade ago, ordered the closure of all institutions within a decade.

Yet, despite all of the above, instead of closing institutions the government [of Israel] is now acting to expand existing ones.

The ADI Negev institution is home to over 150 people. Over the years, more services have been added around this institution, all of them intended for people with disabilities, including employment opportunities. This lifestyle, involving the concentration of people with disabilities in one place, where they live and work - and all of this far from the "normative" community - contravenes international law. 

Every addition of resources to the institution and to the segregated services surrounding it (excluding the rehabilitation hospital) contravene the international treaty and the values of equal human rights.

We therefore call upon the Ministers to oppose this decision today pending a transparent public debate and the clarification of the decision's details and of its compliance with the guidelines detailed above.

The extremely well-connected Doron Almog who heads the operation can't be too happy today.

Friday, December 3, 2021

Watch this

View it on YouTube here
Today is the International Day of Persons with Disabilities

If you are searching for some way to mark the day, I can help. 

The following documentary aired this week and I have been raving about it ever since to my family. 

It's unique in several ways. First, a pretty, successful British actress narrates it. Second, she is personally involved with the topic via her Downs son. And third, her message is a minority and controversial one. 

I hope you find the time to watch it.

Saturday, November 27, 2021

It's my murdered child's birthday


Today, November 27, my precious daughter Malki would have turned 36. 

If only she hadn't stopped with a friend at Jerusalem's Sbarro pizzeria on her way to a summer camp counselors' meeting. 

If only the evil Ahlam Tamimi had been arrested on her way to that target to satisfy her bloodlust. 

If only Tamimi hadn't succeeded by bombing to death 15 innocent Jews. 

If only our worst nightmare hadn't eventuated. 

If only, if only...

But the reality is my angelic, generous, musical and loving daughter is gone while Tamimi is alive and free, enabled by the world's silence to boast publicly about her "accomplishment" and to urge others to emulate her.

She did just that some six weeks ago in a video address to Turkish children that has gone unreported in the news.

Among her words to them: 
"I participated in two jihad attacks which produced thank the lord, the deaths of 15 Zionists... These 2 jihad attacks are a crown on my head. Thank god, I entered history doing the best deeds."
This dangerous monster lives under the protection of Jordan's King Abdullah II who persists in defying the United States' demand for extradition. 

His widely revered father, the late King Hussein, signed an extradition treaty with the US in 1995. Jordan gave formal assurances to the US prior to it being put into effect that all Jordanian formalities had been satisfied. The US says today that the treaty is in full force and effect. Jordan makes no formal statement about this but conveys in a variety of ways that it views the treaty as invalid due to a decision of its highest court in 2017, twenty-two years after the treaty took effect. 

Despite his recalcitrance, Abdullah somehow still garners the adulation of powerbrokers across the globe while Jordan annually receives US aid amounting to billions of dollars.

And all the while, Tamimi, one of only two females listed among the FBI's 25 Most Wanted Terrorists, lives free and famous in Jordan.

When will this brazen injustice be rectified!

Thursday, November 25, 2021

Abuse in a Tiberias institution - Part 2

[For Part 1, see "About a boy on the road"]

"Notice how the police don't act. The director of the institution said she'd deal with it, and that satisfies the police. The complaint is about the institution itself and the police are satisfied with the institution investigating itself regarding abuse. Sound reasonable to you? Had this involved a person without disabilities, a thorough investigation would already be underway."

Those words are the reaction of a professional who has endeavored for years to have Israeli institutions of this sort shut down or, until that eventuates, supervised closely.

Meanwhile, the chain of institutions adored by Israel's politicians, ADI/Aleh, continue to con naïve donors and supporters overseas. Ironically, those fans live in countries that shuttered their large, closed institutions years ago and today provide care and therapies at home and in the community.

Nonetheless they are convinced that, for Israel's population with disabilities, life behind locked doors, isolated from the community, is acceptable. Even laudable.

Presumably they imbibe the propaganda jargon that ADI churns out on its Facebook page. Here is a recent sampling: 
"The Shefa School in Manhattan serves students with language-based learning disabilities... As such, the incredible students and teachers are uniquely empathetic to the needs of our ADI family and were so excited to dive into the ‘ADI Bechinuch’ disability inclusion programming... After watching a virtual tour about how art therapy enhances the lives of the ADI residents, the students were hooked on the programming and made beautiful multisensory Chanukah cards for their new friends in Israel... The Hebrew word ‘Shefa’ means abundance, and it’s clear that these wonderful students possess a wealth of talent, skill, insight and empathy. We are so grateful that they are pouring all of their strengths into ADI Bechinuch, and we can’t wait to see them later this year when they join us in Israel for a day of activities at ADI!"
You can hashtag "pretty" words up the wazoo but that won't alter the reality: large, closed, isolated institutions for adults, children and babies with disabilities.

Sunday, November 21, 2021

About a boy on the road

Frimet Roth: The boy (Pencil)
This past week has seen activists on behalf of people with disabilities all fired up here in Israel. 

Somebody - new to our Whatsapp group - shared details of his encounter with an escapee from an institution in Tiberias, northern Israel, for people with disabilities. 

The frightened youth had "jumped into my car" to quote the man. And then pleaded to be driven to the nearest synagogue.

The man photographed the boy - I have posted my sketch of that photo - and after a few questions concluded he had fled from the residence [name deleted]. 

The boy cried while relating to the man that he'd been  physically abused by staff there.

The man whose name I am withholding despite his posting it, called and spoke to the director of that institution, while recording the conversation. He then posted that audio recording which I have heard. 

He explained in the call that the frightened boy had told him he is being beaten there. 

He went on to say that the moment he had arrived at the institution the boy ran to the guard's booth refusing to enter the building. Without skipping a beat, the director  inquires whether he's certain the boy is from her institution. He explains that if it's the facility beside the pool, then that's the one. She confirms that it is. 

The director then requests the name of the road on which he had entered the caller's car. The caller provides those details. We then hear the director ask a co-worker, "Which resident fled and escaped again?"  She learns his name and then thanks the caller for contacting her. 

She then concludes with this: "Everything is OK and is being taken care of" adding "It's a resident who has been hitting himself since the morning. He's restless." 

The man, who did as instructed, then reported the incident to the police. Shortly afterwards he updated our Whatsapp group with this: 

"Update from the Tiberias Police: The incident is closed. They spoke to the director of the institution and she will deal with it."

Needless to say, this enraged our group. As one member aptly responded:

"Unbelievable. Left it with the director of the institution. Who at the police updated you? The abuser is the investigator, the judge and the executioner."

Accounts of abuse at institutions for people with disabilities and police indifference to them continue to emerge. Yet the government of Israel fails to act. 

These places need to be shut down as they have been in the rest of the developed world.  Why is Israel so advanced in other fields and yet so prehistoric in this one?

Sunday, November 7, 2021

Pandora Papers: How has Jordan's Abdullah ridden out the storm?

Image Source: The Guardian UK
It is one month since the release of the Pandora Papers: "A Money Bomb with Political Ripples", the New York Times dubbed them at the time. Other major papers gave the revelations wide coverage.

Major political repercussions were predicted by the pundits. And despite my now deep-seated cynicism, I too entertained a smidgeon of hope for our mission, Justice For Malki

Could it be that Jordan's king, star of those papers ["While foreign aid poured in, Jordan’s King Abdullah funnelled $100m through secret companies to buy luxury homes"], whose name opened nearly every article covering them, would actually lose some of his magic?

In its October 4, 2021 piece, the New York Times quoted Gary Kalman, director of the U.S office of Transparency International, an organization that monitors financial corruption around the world.
“I don’t think this is the end of Vladimir Putin — let’s not get carried away,” said Gary Kalman, director of the U.S. office of Transparency International, an organization that monitors financial corruption around the world. “But I do think the leaders of these countries, King Abdullah and others, do worry about their reputations,” Mr. Kalman said​ in a telephone interview.
Kalman went on:
For King Abdullah especially, he said, Jordanians now know “he has spent money on properties in Malibu and Georgetown, while in Jordan they don’t have enough money to provide basic services. That looks really bad.”
But not bad enough. A month down the road from Pandora's revelations, Jordan's dictator still has in his thrall powerbrokers of every persuasion imaginable: on both sides of the Congressional aisle, of all religions, and residing on several continents.

Arnold and I and our small circle of supporters are puzzled and perturbed by the global tolerance of Abdullah's documented corruption. 

The silence of the US government after Jordan's steadfast refusal to comply with its demand of Ahlam Tamimi's extradition is incomprehensible. 

The State Department's limp statement that the extradition treaty between Jordan and the U.S. - which Jordan declares void - is valid, is disappointing. 

The refusal of American Jewish and Israeli leaders to speak out and pressure Jordan to extradite her is beyond despicable. And the silence they toss us - or worse, their occasional empty, cliched words of sympathy - are offensive.

Our Malki, still so missed and loved, would have been 35 this month. It is a puzzle to me why so many callous people have managed to attain such influence and power and in so many spheres. And why those people choose warm relations with a dictator who shelters a mass murderer over fighting for justice.

Tuesday, October 12, 2021

Forgetting justice: On Jordan and my child's killer

September 15, 2021 in a NYC hotel: Jordan's king hosts some of America's
most prominent Jewish leaders in an off-the-record gathering - again [Image Source]
It is hard to select only one major recent headline that dovetailed with our ongoing pursuit of justice for our child, Malki. 

Specifically, we seek the extradition from Jordan of the confessed female bomber charged by the US Department of Justice as the terrorist behind the massacre. 

There have been just so many. While I was consumed with recent holiday cooking, doting on grandchildren and coping with the challenges of my daughter Haya, those incredible news breaks just piled up.

First came the annual "King-Worship Gala". This is when the presidents of major US Jewish organizations are invited to an event centering on a speech by King Abdullah II of Jordan in a New York City hotel banquet room. And which they never fail to attend. As is traditional in these encounters, the sycophantic participants were instructed by the host and the officials who run his Washington embassy to hold secret every word uttered at the event. And to keep the event itself confidential.

They dictate that the meeting is "off the record" but that's a royal euphemism. This year's gathering, held as usual during September in the week of the annual United Nations General Assembly opening, was promptly reported via a Royal Jordanian media release.

And reported in a very specific way. The Jordanian media promptly publicized his version of the conversations illustrated with photos of those leaders assiduously scribbling notes of his precious words.

The Jewish attendees, as always, were obedient guests, divulging (as my husband and know from experience) nothing. Not even a public acknowledgement of having been there. A sorry bunch of self deluding king worshippers they are.

Second, there was the extradition to the US of a terrorist from Syria - a Saudi-born Canadian citizen, Mohammed Khalifa. Now in FBI custody, he is charged with supplying material terrorism support via his English voice-overs of ISIS films and of being a combatant.

Meanwhile Ahlam Tamimi, self-confessed brutal mass-murderer of patrons in a bustling eatery - some of them Americans including our Malki - enjoys a life of celebrity and freedom. 

Tamimi's crimes undoubtedly eclipse those of Khalifa. She orchestrated the horrific terror bombing of Jerusalem's Sbarro pizzeria in 2001 by scouting for and then selecting that family-friendly site, transporting the 10 kg bomb, escorting her accomplice across the city to the entrance of the restaurant and instructing him on how and when to detonate the nail-enhanced device. Khalifa, on the other hand, worked for the media unit that publicized and exploited the killings of hostages.

When will the relevant authorities see to it that our child's murderer follow the same route as Mohammed Khalifa and stand trial as well?

The US State Department has acknowledged - but barely and very quietly - Jordan's refusal to extradite Tamimi in breach of a 1995 treaty that State itself says is valid. Senior officials assured us this past week - and as emphatically as always - that the unresolved extradition of Tamimi from her homeland, Jordan, remains as it has been for years a top priority.

When a matter enjoys that status for a decade with no progress whatever, it is clear either that the claim is bunk or that the "top priority" label just won't cut it.

Yesterday, in the week of the tenth anniversary of her release from Israeli prison in the lopsided Shalit Deal, an Arabic-language Facebook article showed a woman who looks somewhat like Tamimi being a guest of honor at a Jordanian girls school. The text that accompanies it mentions both Tamimi explicitly and the Shalit Deal in an adulatory way.  [I am checking whether it was Tamimi herself who appeared and spoke and will update here when I have a clearer picture.]

Last, but not at all least, was the gift that keeps giving: the headline that remains on center stage even a fortnight after the story broke. The Pandora Papers look primed to harm numerous leaders and celebrities but every article covering them highlights King Abdullah's shenanigans. 

"Jordan’s King Among Leaders Accused of Amassing Secret Property Empire" began the New York Times Pandora piece of October 3, 2021, before launching an account of luxury homes in Malibu, London and Washington.

It was inexpressibly satisfying to read that the darling of the American right and left, of Democrats and Republicans, of conservatives and progressives, of American and Israeli politicians, of liberal and religious Jews was, in fact, just another thief, albeit with a British accent.
 
The question now dogging Arnold and me is this: Will the dictator's embezzlement of his poor constituents' cash tarnish his stellar image? To put numbers on that, within 3 months of the pandemic's outbreak, the poverty rate in Jordan leapt from 15% to 26%. Unemployment rose five points, reaching 24.7% by the end of 2020.

Will the exposé reduce the billions in financial aid his kingdom pockets every year from the United States. Tiny Jordan has for years been one of the world's largest recipients of such funds. It's currently ranked number two.
From Haaretz, October 19, 2011

I find myself hoping at this point that some, at least, of the above penetrates the hearts and minds of the powers that be (they know who they are) who refuse to help us win justice for Malki and in many cases actively block the process. 

As we near the anniversary of her murderer's release, let's remember what a fiasco the Shalit Deal was. For my views at the time, not so different today, see "Shalit Prisoner Swap Marks 'Colossal Failure' for Mother of Israeli Bombing Victim" in Haaretz, October 2011 .

One of the deal's outspoken proponents, Nehemia Shtrassler, who writes on economics at Haaretz, was forced to dredge up ridiculous defenses this past weekend ["Opinion | Israel Must Do Everything to Bring Soldiers Home"]. One is that past leaders who refused to release terrorists with blood on their hands had blood on their own hands - since they had waged wars! And another: that releasing dangerous terrorists isn't all that bad because there's an unlimited supply of them out there. So imprisoning the captured ones won't prevent terror attacks in any case! 

Of course applying that "logic" to its conclusion would mean emptying all our prisons. And just forgetting justice.

Sunday, September 12, 2021

9/11 and me


Today, many of us are answering the question "Where were you when you heard of the 9/11 terror attacks?"

Like most others, news of the crash into the North Tower reached me without the slightest suspicion it was anything more than a horrific aviation catastrophe. I was seated in a grief therapist's office and after he saw the headline on his phone, we were shocked together.

We then proceeded with our conversation intended to help me grapple with another terror attack, one that had turned my life inside out just a month earlier: the August 9, 2001 massacre at the Jerusalem Sbarro pizzeria.
A newsagency photo of my daughter Malki's grave
on the day we buried her [Image Source]

My fifteen year old daughter Malki perished there that afternoon and the therapist was trying to comfort me. 

Without much success. 

I remember his references - about once in every session - to grieving wild animals who curl up and isolate from their herds or packs when they lose a child.

By the time I emerged onto the hot and sunny Jerusalem streets in the late afternoon, the news of the attacks in New York and Washington had crystalized. What I learned was they were being attributed to Islamic terrorists. 

I was struck at how the identical evil targeting Israel for the past year had now also reached America. New York is my birthplace and had been my home until the age of 22. 

The sense of helplessness before a powerful and merciless enemy was overwhelming.

Twenty years later, the grief, both personal and collective remains terribly raw. 

And that helplessness, mostly unchanged.

Monday, September 6, 2021

On making terrorists pay the price and other questions for the President

The Jordanian royals on the day they were hosted in the Oval Office
We're in the hours leading up to Rosh Hashana, the start of the High Holydays season in Jewish life and the start of a new year according to the lunar calendar of the Jewish people.

It's an appropriate time to mention what President Biden expressed in the wake of the August 26, 2021 atrocity carried out at Kabul's airport in Afghanistan. 

Speaking after what he called “a tough day”, he said the United States would uphold its “sacred obligation” to the families of the fallen. Quoted in the New York Times, President Biden sounded unequivocally determined:
“To those who carried out this attack, as well as anyone who wishes America harm, know this: We will not forgive,” the president said. “We will not forget. We will hunt you down and make you pay.” ...He vowed the United States would respond with force at “a moment of our choosing,” echoing President Bush’s remarks days after the attacks of Sept. 11, 2001.

President Biden, here's what I am wondering. Why isn't the mass-murdering terrorist Ahlam Tamimi, the one whose bomb took the life of fifteen innocents inside a pizzeria including my sweet daughter Malki, being made to "pay the price". 

Seven men and women and eight children perished in Tamimi's 2001 attack on Jerusalem's Sbarro pizzeria. Two of her victims were Americans including Malki who was just fifteen.

Bringing Tamimi to justice ought to be surprisingly straightforward. There is no need to "hunt her down" in your words; her whereabouts are known to all, or at least everyone who needs to know which includes the law enforcement agencies of the United States government. 

But here's the thing. Tamimi, who has never denied what she did, lives as a protected celebrity in Amman, Jordan's capital city. To judge from the number of media interviews she has given, her precise home address is a matter of public knowledge. 

And it gets even easier: there is an extradition treaty that was signed and ratified by the US and Jordan in 1995 and that is regarded as valid by the State Department. 

What's more, her extradition to stand trial in the US has already been demanded over and again by the Department of Justice, starting - according to well-placed sources - in 2013, more than eight years ago.

Eight years. 

So you and anyone reading this may ask why it is that Tamimi hasn't already been made to "pay the price"? Why is she still free, influential, a Jordanian icon?

And here too the answer is not complicated. It is because the White House and the State Department are afraid to upset Jordan's King Abdullah. They have accepted his refusal to comply with their extradition demand without the slightest whimper. 

King Abdullah, the unelected ruler of a small, impoverished country which has received billions of dollars in US aid for years, gets to dictate the rules: No extradition. 

And you, Mr President - who talks so tough to the Kabul airport terrorists - have no tough words for King Abdullah. Only reverence for "His Majesty"

And, of course, more cash.

Sunday, August 15, 2021

Pompeo, justice and betrayal

What we published last November
I promised to prove that our struggle is apolitical. 

My last post [Fear Uncertainty and Doubt at the State Department, August 9, 2021] lambasted the U.S. State Department, and especially Secretary Antony J. Blinken, for honoring - no, idolizing - Jordan's ruler King Abdullah II during his recent visit to DC and a full day at the State Department

It noted State's omission of Abdullah's refusal to extradite mass murderer Ahlam Tamimi despite the US Department of Justice's demand he do so. Our daughter Malki was murdered in the bombing she orchestrated and for which she has claimed credit for years.

Many readers have critiqued my husband Arnold Roth and me for "squandering" the "golden opportunity" that ex-President Trump's administration offered us. They insist that had we approached him and his team in some other, better way, Tamimi would now be in US custody.

Nothing could be further from the truth.

The truth is we made strong and repeated attempts to reach out to them right through the Trump years. All of this effort was in vain.

Here below is a summary of the pleas we directed specifically at Secretary of State Mike Pompeo as it appeared in the blog we have produced together for the past fifteen years. The blog is called This Ongoing War and we published this post which was authored by Arnold, nine months ago. 

We published it at the time because we felt it important to let people know we had tried, and failed again totally for the last time, to get Pompeo's attention. From the reactions we're hearing now. it failed to be seen or understood widely enough.

We did something yesterday that we have never done before.

We ordered a display advertisement in a mainstream newspaper: today's (Thursday’s) Jerusalem Post. Our message appears on its front page.

The timing of our ad is intended to coincide with U.S. Secretary of State Mike Pompeo’s visit to Israel that began yesterday afternoon (Wednesday November 18). 

Our hope is that he will see it at breakfast. And that perhaps he will think about the images we included, as well as the scriptural quote at the top of the text: “Justice, justice thou shalt pursue”.

The words from Deuteronomy (the Biblical book called Devarim in Hebrew) will be recited in the Jewish world's annual cycle of Torah reading when we get to Parshat Shoftim, the weekly portion called “Judges”. 

That happens next in August 2021. By coincidence, the same week will include the twentieth anniversary of the Sbarro pizzeria massacre.

There are two images in our Pompeo advertisement. One shows Malki. The other is of the devastated Sbarro pizzeria in the center of Jerusalem, minutes after a bomb placed by Ahlam Tamimi exploded inside. 

Tamimi, a Jordanian woman who arrived from her homeland alone, soon joined Fatah. And then, in June 2001 and aged 21, she switched to Hamas. She was evidently in search of something and found it that summer: the opportunity to kill Jews on a satisfyingly large scale. It was an opportunity she grabbed.

On the morning of July 27, 2001, a Friday, Tamimi carried a smallish made-by-Hamas bomb embedded inside a beer can and surreptitiously placed it on a shelf in what was then a Co-op Supermarket. This was located in the basement of a building on Jerusalem’s King George Street that locals knew as Hamashbir. It's an office building today with some shops at street level. She quickly left the scene.

The bomb fizzed with no serious damage except to the ambitious bomber’s pride. 

By her own account, she raged in fury at her Hamas handlers right afterwards and demanded something much larger. She got it ten days later: a diabolical exploding guitar case and a young religious fanatic eager to carry it on his back into whatever target Tamimi chose.

Tamimi scoured Jerusalem and chose Sbarro. The busy pizzeria with the good hashgacha (certificate of being kosher) was popular among religiously observant youngsters like Malki. Tamimi has for years wanted it to be known that her choice was based on the large number of Jewish children reliably inside at that hour. We don't know why this single fact does not lead every report ever published about this exceptionally cold-blooded murdering Islamist. It should.

Mostly behind the scenes, we have pressed the United States to insist Jordan extradites Tamimi since 2012. She has faced serious federal terror charges since they were unsealed by a team of senior department of Justice officials in a public event in March 2017. They had been issued secretly by a judge four years earlier.

This evidently was known to the senior members of Jordan’s political and royal power structure. That’s because secret – and entirely unsuccessful - efforts were made by high-level American officials for several years to persuade Jordan to hand Tamimi over to the FBI. They knew Tamimi was charged even before we (or even the US Congress) did. And to be clear about this central element: there's been an active and totally valid treaty between Jordan and the US since 1995 for the extradition of fugitives like Tamimi. The State Department said nothing for years about the way Jordan breaches that treaty in the Tamimi case (though not in other cases). It started being open and explicit about it late last year ["03-Nov-19: In Washington, a step towards bringing the Sbarro bomber to justice"]

Why should US charges and American justice even enter the Tamimi story? 

The simple answer: Because Malki had American citizenship via her New York-born mother. And there’s an American law that gives it the right and the obligation to go after terrorists who kill American nationals outside the territorial United States. Once taken into custody, the fugitive terrorist can be flown to the US and tried in a US court under US law. It’s what ought to have happened to Tamimi.

But first the FBI has to get its hands on the fugitive terrorist. 

The good news is the US and Jordan signed a treaty to facilitate extradition in both directions. That was in 1995, and in the years that followed extraditions were carried out on request just as the treaty stipulated. But something about the Tamimi case made it different for the Jordanians. They started refusing as soon as the requests arrived and have continued refusing right up until today [see "16-Nov-20: Justice, the Tamimi extradition and what Jordan tells Arabic media but not the world"]. The US has made clear its view that Jordan is wrong,

Tamimi not only lives in complete freedom under the patronage of the Jordanian government but has become a media celebrity there and in large parts of the Arab world. The details are chilling - almost beyond comprehension.

Our Jerusalem Post ad is a call to action to the Trump administration and specifically to its Secretary of State. There’s no political dimension to it - just a call to compel Jordan to abide by a bilateral treaty to which it is a party. And for pure and simple justice to be done.

We have made repeated efforts to recruit politicians to give our campaign some clout but they have borne no fruit. And it’s not that we’re on the wrong side of politics because we’re not on any side.

It’s also not that people actually refuse our request or argue with us or give us cogent reasons why Tamimi ought to be left alone. That’s of course not true about Jordan. There its media, some of its public officials and citizens enthusiastically stand with her.

What mostly happens is we’re ignored. Many of those we approach don’t return our calls or emails or look right through us if we happen to be speaking face to face.

How likely is it that this time will be different? Hard to know but it doesn’t matter to us. Tzedek tzedek tirdof, as the scripture says. Justice, justice though shalt pursue.

That’s our role.

We’re not alone. As our ad says, we have a petition (here - and it's not too late to sign if you haven't already). Thousands of people from everywhere – a not insignificant number of them from Arab countries and even from Jordan – have signed. Their support encourages and empowers us.

Secretary Pompeo, it’s not too late to act” reads our banner headline. “We ask that you do what needs to be done so that Tamimi is at last brought to justice in Washington.”

Next week, after the American visitor leaves, we will go, just the two of us, to Malki’s grave. We do that every year on her birthday. This next time, we are going to have to deal with the reality that she would have become 35 years old that day - but instead she was ripped from our grasp and will not come back. 

We remember her precious life when we get together with our children and grandchildren. And we feel gratified and proud when we look at the exceptional work done daily by the Malki Foundation, the charitable organization that for the past nineteen years has served as a non-sectarian memorial to Malki's short but remarkably impactful life.

And at night when we dream that she is alive and hug her lovingly.

Secretaries of State come and go as do ambassadors and presidents, prime ministers and kings. What never goes away is the absolute need to keep justice at the center of our lives as families and as a society. Our advertisement comes to deliver that message to the breakfast table of movers and shakers as well as to the hearts of ordinary people everywhere.

UPDATE December 5, 2020: Not a word of media comment from any of the many reporters traveling with the Secretary of State. And no response from Secretary of State Pompeo or any of his spokespeople, advisers or assistants.

So, for the record: Label us apolitical. Or at least non-partisan.

Here below is our paid Jerusalem Post front page advertisement, the one that Pompeo's entire retinue and the Great Man himself have ignored totally from November 18, 2020 until right up to this morning.

Click to see it larger. 

Monday, August 9, 2021

Fear Uncertainty and Doubt at the State Department

Malki z"l
Words cannot convey the enormity of a 20th anniversary of the massacre that took our child's life. 

Instead I'll take this opportunity to focus on the ongoing travesty of justice which we are endeavoring to correct. And rather than restate it in detail, I'll home in on the U.S. State Department's current stance.

That Department has concocted its very own, as yet unheard-of, definition of "prioritize". In its curt official response to our email enquiring whether Secretary of State Blinken mentioned Ahlam Tamimi to King Abdullah last week, that verb popped up repeatedly.

Secretary Blinken met privately with King Abdullah of Jordan following President Biden's tete-a-tete with Jordan's unelected ruler. My husband and I wondered whether Blinken raised the matter of Jordan's refusal to accede to the U.S. Department of Justice's demand that our child's murderer, Hamas operative Tamimi, be extradited to be tried in a U.S. Federal Court for the orchestration of of the 2001 Sbarro bombing - the terror attack in which 15 men, women and children perished - and a sixteenth has been in a coma ever since. 

Three of those victims, including our fifteen year old Malki, were U.S. citizens. (Malki and a young American tourist are the two dead American nationals. The third American is alive but has been in a vegetative coma all these years.) 

Moreover, in 1995 Jordan and the U.S. signed and ratified an extradition treaty.

Sec Blinken hosts Jordan's king - July 20, 2021 
So "prioritizing" the issue would have made a lot of sense. The official message below sent to us a few days ago as a private email would truly have been a welcome one: 
"I want to express the Department's sincere condolences on the tragic loss of your daughter, Malki, murdered in the heinous attack in Jerusalem in 2001. As the [exact job title deleted, at least for now] for Counterterrorism, I want to reiterate to you and your family that the Department of State continues to prioritize seeing Ahlam al-Tamimi face justice in the United States for her role in the terrorist attack that claimed the life of your daughter and 14 others. We continue to seek Tamimi's extradition to the United States at the most senior levels with the Government of Jordan."
It would indeed have been welcome had it been at all truthful. 

But clearly in the State Department lexicon, "prioritize" means something entirely different from what it does for you and me. 

Because this is how Secretary of State Antony J. Blinken actually handled the king's intransigence during his encounter with him...

Though he would presumably be considered an official at the "most senior levels" of his own department, it appears he simply did not raise it at all

Instead, like every other American official, politician or VIP who met with him during his July 19-23 Washington visit, he occupied himself with lavishing praise on King Abdullah.

Here are Blinken's words to the press prior to their private conversation. Don't be shocked at the hyperbolic royalty rigmarole - it is de rigeur when any U.S. official or journalist addresses that dictator:
"...Your Majesty, it is a real pleasure to welcome you to the State Department, the Crown Prince as well. We couldn’t be more pleased to have you here. .. I think it’s a reflection of the tremendous value that the United States places on its relationship with Jordan, a remarkable partnership over many years, many decades. Jordan is a powerful, powerful partner for peace, for stability in the region, dealing with ISIS and terrorism, a remarkably generous host to refugees. On so many levels, this partnership demonstrates its importance, its value to us... So, we’re so pleased to have you here... Lots to talk about, but mostly, welcome. Welcome to you, Crown Prince, welcome. It’s so good to have you as well." [Official remarks to the press according to the State Department record, July 20, 2021]
And in case that introduction left anyone in doubt, the exchange below between a journalist and a State Department spokesman at the subsequent press conference should put the matter to rest:
QUESTION: Yeah. Well, did it [the Tamimi extradition issue] come up?
MR PRICE: I’m not in a position to speak to the meeting, but we’ll have a readout...
QUESTION: Well, are you – I mean, are you – has this administration yet raised it with – raised the matter with Jordanian authorities, the King or not? Or is this something that would have just come up for the first time today?
MR PRICE: This issue has been raised with our Jordanian partners.
I don't know about you but I would conclude that the spokesperson is really saying it wasn't raised but he prefers to not say that explicitly.

Stay tuned for my next post where I detail former Secretary of State Mike Pompeo's dismissal of our entreaties. The State Department's adoration of Jordan's king is as bi-partisan as bi-partisan gets.

[Wondering what the term "Fear Uncertainty and Doubt" means? See this here.]

Thursday, July 29, 2021

Words at the grave: Twenty years


These are the words, translated from Hebrew to English, that I shared with friends and family gathered today at the grave of my daughter Malki, and beside the grave of her dear friend Michal Raziel. The girls are buried side by side, having been murdered side by side in the terror attack on Jerusalem's Sbarro pizzeria on August 9, 2001. In the Jewish calendar, today - the 20th day of the month of Av - is the twentieth anniversary of that date.

(The Hebrew text is below the English.)

* * *  

Who would have believed that one can carry around a broken heart for twenty years? 

The intensity of the pain and longing hasn't faded one iota with time. The memories of life with Malki in our midst are such happy ones that they only sadden. I usually banish them - just to shield myself. 

What celebration Malki brought us by her mere presence - truly, celebration. With her wide smile, her perpetual giving, her generosity, her heavenly flute-playing, her innumerable artistic creations, her passion for life.

If the years of grief have taught me anything it is that for this loss there is no comfort. The words that often reverberate in my mind are: Malki, were you there or did I only dream? (Perhaps, by Israeli poet, Rachel)

It is impossible for Arnold and me to mark the 20th anniversary of the murders of Malki, her friend of Michal and of the other thirteen victims of the Sbarro massacre without mentioning the ongoing travesty of justice. 

We are determined to continue pursuing justice, G-d willing, as long as the murderer, Ahlam Tamimi, enjoys freedom and as long as we have strength for the struggle. 

May we witness the realization of that goal soon and in our time.

* * * 

מי היה מאמין שאפשר לסחוב לב שבור עשרים שנה? 

עצמת הכאב והגעגועים לא עומעמה במאומה עם הזמן. 

הזכרונות של החיים בעוד מלכי הייתה אתנו הם כל כך שמחים שהם אינם משמחים. אני מבריחה אותם לרוב - בכדי להתגונן מהכאב. איזו חגיגה הביאה לנו מלכי בעצם נוכחותה - כן, ממש חגיגה. עם החיוך הרחב, הנתינה, הנדיבות, הנגינה השמימית בחליל, אינספור יצירות האומנות, ההתלהבות מהחיים. אם שנות האבל לימדו אותי משהו, הרי זה שאין נחמה לאבדן הזה. המלים שמהדהדות בי תכופות הן "מלכי, ההיית או חלמתי חלום"?

אי אפשר לי ולארנולד לציין 20 שנה להירצחם של מלכי ומיכל ו-13 קרבנות סבארו הנוספים בלי להזכיר את אי הצדק המתמשך. אנחנו נחושים להמשיך לרדוף את הצדק אי"ה כל עוד הרוצחת תמימי נהנית מהחופש וכל עוד יש בנו את הכוחות למאבק. 

יהי רצון שנזכה לראות את התממשות הצדק במהירה בימינו.

Tuesday, July 27, 2021

On failing to move our fight for justice to center-stage

King Abdullah II of Jordan addresses a Congressional committee
As Malki's yahrzeit nears (the twentieth day of the month of Av in the Hebrew calendar which this year falls on July 29, two days from now), we are digesting the failure of last week's efforts to bring our fight for justice to center-stage.

Despite some of our terrific media exposure, Jordan's King Abdullah scored his customary adulation - groveling, actually - from his US hosts. They included the White House, Congress and major media outlets. And that was across-the-board, bi-partisan groveling.

The king's last interview (actually the only interview he appears to have given to the American media throughout his entire lengthy visit (text here via Jordan Times; video here via CNN), was with CNN's Fareed Zakaria who rates by most, myself included, as level-headed, intelligent and insightful. 

So I was surprised and disgusted to watch him behave as sycophantically as every other American has in Abdullah's presence. Each sentence was preceded with "Your Highness" (he used the expression seven times). And his last line was "Your Highness, it always an honor and a pleasure to talk to you."

I invite anyone to explain to me why champions of democracy are so obsequious to a ruthless, unelected totalitarian dictator; a leader who protects a self-confessed mass-murdering terrorist and refuses to extradite her to the US despite its demand that he do so in accordance with a valid extradition treaty signed and ratified 26 years ago.

Mr. Zakariah, please explain why you studiously avoided this issue in your lengthy interview - "wide-ranging" was how the Jordanian press described it. 

Source: FBI website
Explain why the fact that Abdullah harbors one of the FBI's Most Wanted Terrorists didn't detract one iota from the respect you lavished on him. 

How has he captivated you? With his impeccable mastery of the English language? His almost-British accent? His glibness? His beautiful, designer clad, and equally articulate, wife?

But Zakaria is in good company. Neither President Biden nor Secretary of State Blinken mentioned the Tamimi travesty of justice either when they met with Abdullah this past week. Since videos of those conversations weren't released, we have no way of knowing whether they were also as sycophantic as Zakaria toward a ruler, don't forget, who is recipient of US$1.6 billion in aid annually.

This king-worship - a monarch who remains in power by the grace of US benefaction - is as baffling as it is infuriating.

Tuesday, July 20, 2021

Help for our cause from the Washington Post

This may not be an op ed as my husband and I had in yesterday's Wall Street Journal. But it is nonetheless an achievement.

In my assessment, this exposure has nudged Jordan's outrageous behavior a bit closer to the headlines. And we owe a huge debt of gratitude to AP journalist Aamer Madhani who inserted the Tamimi scandal into his coverage of the Abdullah-Biden tete a tete

He did that despite the absence of any indication that the leaders discussed it at all. In fact, he devoted a full third of his brief article to our struggle.

So, without further ado, here is today's tiny triumph as it appeared in the Washington Post and in dozens of other syndication clients of Associated Press:

Biden calls Jordan king a loyal ally in ‘tough neighborhood’
by: AAMER MADHANI, Associated Press | Posted July 19, 2021 


FILE – In this May 26, 2021 file photo, Jordan’s King Abdullah II listens during a meeting with Secretary of State Antony Blinken, in Amman, Jordan. (AP Photo/Alex Brandon, Pool, File)

WASHINGTON (AP) — President Joe Biden praised King Abdullah II of Jordan as a stalwart ally in a “tough neighborhood” as the two leaders huddled at the White House on Monday, a meeting that came at a pivotal moment for both leaders in the Middle East.

Last week a Jordanian state security court sentenced two former officials to 15 years in prison over an alleged plot against the king uncovered earlier this year that involved Abdullah’s half-brother.

Meanwhile, Biden, who has put much of his foreign policy focus on China and Russia in the early going, faces some difficult issues in the Middle East. He is dealing with stepped-up attacks against U.S. troops in Iraq and Syria by Iranian-backed militias at the same moment that his administration is trying to nudge Iran back to the negotiating table to revive the nuclear agreement that Donald Trump abandoned during his presidency.

“You have always been there, and we will always be there for Jordan,” Biden said during an Oval Office meeting with Abdullah and his son, the Crown Prince Hussein.

Abdullah had a difficult relationship with Trump, who he saw as undercutting any chance for a peace deal between Israelis and Palestinians with his 2017 declaration of Jerusalem as Israel’s capital. He also chaffed at the Trump administration’s pursuit of what officials called the Abraham Accords — deals with Bahrain, the United Arab Emirates, Sudan and Morocco that normalized relations with Israel but left out the Palestinians.

Biden has no plans to reverse U.S. recognition of Jerusalem as the capital. His administration has even praised the Trump-brokered accords — a rare instance of the Democratic administration speaking positively of the former administration.

Biden planned to stress to Abdullah in private that the accords are not an “end run” on finding the way to a peace deal that includes a Palestinian state, according to a senior administration official who was not authorized to comment publicly and spoke on condition of anonymity.

Abdullah, for his part, praised Biden for “setting the standard” internationally in the battle against COVID-19. The U.S. delivered 500,000 vaccines to Jordan days ahead of the king’s visit. The king also appeared to make clear that he was looking to reset the U.S. – Jordan relationship after a four bumpy years with Trump.

“You can always count on me, my country, and many of our colleagues in the region,” Abdullah said.

The two leaders discussed the situation in Syria — more than 1 million Syrian refugees have fled the war-ravaged nation for Jordan — and a wobbly security situation in Iraq, an administration official said. At least eight drone attacks have targeted the U.S. military presence in Iraq since Biden took office in January, as well as 17 rocket attacks.

Abdullah is set to have a working breakfast Tuesday with Vice President Kamala Harris and to meet with Secretary of State Antony Blinken.

The meeting with Biden was also a chance for the king to spotlight his closeness to Biden following the attempted coup.

Bassem Awadallah, who has U.S. citizenship and once served as a top aide to King Abdullah II, and Sharif Hassan bin Zaid, a member of the royal family, were found guilty of sedition and incitement charges. Both men denied the charges and Awadallah’s U.S. lawyer said his client alleged he was tortured in Jordanian detention and fears for his life.

They are alleged to have conspired with Prince Hamzah, the king’s half-brother. Biden, who has known Abdullah for years, was quick to publicly express “strong U.S. support for Jordan” and praise the king’s leadership after details of the coup attempt were unveiled in April.

It’s unclear if Biden raised the United States’ long-standing call to extradite Ahlam Ahmad al-Tamimi, a Palestinian woman living in Jordan who is wanted by the U.S. on a charge of conspiring to use a weapon of mass destruction against American nationals.

The Trump administration last year indicated it was considering withholding aidto Jordan in a bid to secure al-Tamimi’s extradition. She was convicted in Israel of a 2001 bombing of a Tel Aviv restaurant that killed 15 people, including two American citizens. She has lived freely in Jordan since she was released in a Hamas-Israel prisoner swap in 2011.

Biden administration officials have previously made clear to Jordan that the extradition of al-Tamimi, who is on the FBI’s most wanted list, is of “high-interest” to the United States, according to the administration official.

Arnold Roth, whose 15-year-old daughter, Malki, was killed in the bombing, noted that Biden has spoken frequently of “decency” and “dignity” as paramount values in how he’ll run his administration. Roth and his wife, Frimet, wrote Blinken and other administration officials last month calling on the administration to press Abdullah for extradition. He said they received no response from the administration beyond acknowledgement that their letter was received.

“I can’t think of two words that more powerfully encapsulate what we’ve been deprived of in all of our dealings with the U.S. government,” Roth said.

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Wednesday, July 14, 2021

Disability pride

The late Effie Ben Baruch 
I am sorry to concede that I learned about July being Disability Pride Month from none other than ADI's Facebook page. 

Actually - and ADI omitted this point - it is recognized as such only in New York City where Mayor Bill de Blasio declared it in honor of the 25th anniversary of the Americans With Disabilities Act (ADA). Parades are held in a number of American cities including Los Angeles, New York City, San Francisco and San Antonio. 

New York City is hosting a parade to commemorate the landmark legislation and as a born-and-bred New Yorker I'll jump on that bandwagon. 

While ADI did disseminate this helpful information, it is also hard at work entrenching the institutionalization of babies, children and adults with disabilities in large, locked structures far from the rest of society. 

So, you do the math. I'd say this mention of July doesn't clear them even one iota. In fact, this month is being touted thus: 
"....not only a time for the disabled community to celebrate who they are, but it's also a time to better understand how you can become a better ally to our disabled community members." 
And I will attempt to do just that.

Several days ago, advocates for disability rights in Israel learned that a former caregiver, Ali Akaria, who worked in Ramat Haifa, an institution for people with disabilities was sentenced to nine months of community service after he was convicted of attacking Ephraim Ben Baruch. 

The latter, a helpless 27 year old resident in Ramat Haifa with cognitive and behavioral impairments, endured repeated abuse there by other caregivers which, it is suspected, caused his eventual death in 2019. 

 In his judgement against Akaria, Judge Zair Falach wrote that the defendant asked for the court's mercy and he responded: 
"If the defendant had behaved with mercy toward his charge he would not find himself being judged before me. The defendant's request for mercy is an infuriating request when the defendant himself behaved with an absence of mercy toward the deceased charge."
A propos "infuriating", the fact that the judge's ire translated into several months of community service has had that same effect on the disability activist community. That slap on the wrist has galvanized them to redouble their fight for an end to institutionalization. Protest rallies, petitions, PR campaigns and lawsuits are all being weighed as the next step toward that goal. 

Parents and siblings constantly share their desperation to transfer their loved ones to in-community living in small hostels. 

Pull out your magnifying glass to see what has us very excited:
My daughter Haya is kicking a bit!

In Israel this isn't an option for most. As one of them noted: 
"...within the system of checks and balances that exists when residents go out to activities and live in the community among neighbors, leave their homes, a case of ongoing abuse would be exposed. The institution of Ramat Haifa - like Neve ha-Irus which we recently experienced - is an isolated island where anything can happen. Going out into the community ensures the safety of residents while the Ministry argues that an institution is the most protected place."
Somebody in that Whatsapp group posted an invitation to an ADI-sponsored Zoom event for parents of children with disabilities. Shocked and dismayed to see them ensnared in another ADI trap, I reminded them what the ADI enterprise is really about. You can help spread the word too! This is the month for you to help spread the message.